Should I ask for an Annulment?

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Experienced San Francisco Bay Area attorneys will inform clients about the option for an Annulment when they want to separate from their spouse.  Is Annulment right for you? This post covers some of the most common questions about Annulment in California.

What is an Annulment?

In California, an Annulment or “nullity” is when the Court determines that the marriage is not legally valid.   A marriage can be annulled or voided in cases of incest, bigamy, unsound mind, fraud, force, and physical incapacity.

What is the difference between Annulment and Divorce?

In the San Francisco Bay Area, a dissolution or Divorce is when the Court terminates a valid marriage on grounds arising after the marriage.  In contrast, an Annulment is when the Court terminates a marriage on the grounds that there was never a valid or legal marriage. In other words, a divorce action seeks to terminate marital status on grounds that occurred during the marriage, while a nullity action seeks to inquire whether any such status ever existed.

What are some advantages of asking the Court for an Annulment?

There are some advantages of pursing an Annulment. 

1.     First, there is no 6-month waiting period from service of process (or the respondent’s appearance).  

2.     Second, there is a possibility to restore rights that were lost as a result of the marriage.

3.     Third, if the responding party is not a putative spouse it may be possible to prevent that party from obtaining orders (for example, division of property, support, attorney fees and costs) in a nullity action that he or she could obtain in a dissolution action.

What are some of the disadvantages of asking the Court for an Annulment?

1.     First, proving the grounds for annulment may be more complex, difficult and costly than a divorce.

2.     Second, California community property laws that protect married couples will no longer be in place if the marriage is annulled. 

3.     Last, neither party can receive spousal support or survivorship benefits, like inheritances and retirement interests, from the other.

 

 

If you are considering an Annulment and have more questions, contact an experienced Bay Area family law attorney. 

What is Divorce Mediation?

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San Francisco Bay Area clients looking for divorce mediation often come to me at the initial stages of divorce wondering what mediation looks like and what are the practical steps for mediation. Clients who are unfamiliar with the mediation process often have many questions about the process, the role of the mediator and what they can expect.  

Alternative Process
Mediation is an alternative form of dispute resolution and seeks resolve disputes without going to court. In San Francisco Bay Area, Mediation is popular because it allows clients to save money, stay in control, and save time. The mediation process is entirely voluntary, and any party can withdraw from this mediation at any time, for any reason.

Who is a Mediator?
A divorce mediator is generally a lawyer hired by all of the parties to the dispute and therefore does not represent any individual party. This means that a mediator cannot give legal advice to the mediating parties, recommend a certain course of action, or advocate on behalf of any one of the parties. However, in my practice, I explain and discuss legal concepts and statutory or case law with parties where appropriate to enable the parties to make informed choices. 

Confidentiality

What happens in mediation is confidential. All parties are required to sign a confidentiality agreement prior to beginning the mediation. This means that nothing that is said, done or prepared for the purpose of mediation can ever be used against any party in court or anywhere else. One important exception is that any Marital Settlement Agreement which is prepared as a result of the mediation is not confidential because it may need to be enforced with the Court. 

Control

In divorce mediation, the spouses make the decisions about their divorce. There is no judge or umpire. Typically, there is one mediator who is trained to facilitate communication between disputing parties and to guide the parties toward solutions. The mediator's role is to allow communication between the parties in a productive and cooperative environment.

Attorneys in Mediation
Depending on the type of case, attorneys may or may not be present in the mediation. There is no requirement that attorneys be present at mediation, regardless of whether attorneys have been retained or not. Attorneys may be present, may be available by telephone or may be available for later consultation with individual clients. 

Written Documents

At the conclusion of the mediation, the mediator may prepare a written

memorandum or agreement in accordance with the following:

a)     In a divorce mediation, the mediator may prepare and file the legal forms required for the parties to obtain a final judgment for dissolution of marriage, including a Marital Settlement Agreement.

b) Otherwise, at the Parties' request, the mediator may prepare a Memorandum of

Understanding, which is not intended to be a legally binding document.  

Moving Forward
A mediated dispute puts the clients in control of their own solutions and provides significant time and financial savings so that you can concentrate on what matters most – your health and your family.

Read more at Gordon Family Law's Divorce Mediation page to learn more about our divorce mediation services and click on the articles below to learn more now:

Divorce Mediation Process: How to Begin a Divorce Mediation.




Common California Divorce Mistakes

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Gordon Family Law is committed to educating clients and we want to share some common mistakes we see early in the divorce process so you can avoid making them.

(1)  Making a deal with your spouse about splitting your assets or debts without seeing all the financial information in front of you. If your spouse has always handled all of the financial decisions in your household and you don’t have any information about you and your spouse’s income and assets, your spouse could have an unfair advantage over you when it comes time to settle the financial issues in your divorce.  Make sure you accurately gather all the documents before you agree to any final decision.

(2)  Hiring a lawyer who promises you that they will “win”. As we all know, there is no winning in divorce – generally divorce is the result of many years of consideration and is often a very sad event. A thoughtful divorce attorney will explain that the best outcome for a successful mediation or divorce is to walk about thinking “that wasn’t so bad,” meaning that both parties had to make concessions but they have walked away with primarily what they need.

(3) Tax considerations. Divorce and any property division have potentially huge IRS tax implications.  If you are dividing real property or retirement accounts – please consider talking to a tax consultant or accountant about your divorce. The rules about filing separately or single can impact your taxes in the years after a divorce.

(4) Believing your children will be better with you than they are with your ex.  Divorce is hard on children, but not as hard as you may expect. Children are usually as happy as their most unhappy parent. What that means is that unless there is evidence, meaning CPS reports or a police record, fighting over children is expensive and rarely successful.  We are strong believers in co-parenting and working together with your ex to create logical plans for raising children in separate homes.

(5) Not taking care of yourself. Divorce is one of the most stressful events, besides maybe the loss of a loved one. In the next few months, it’s important to carve out some time for yourself as you go through a divorce. Re-connect with free activities you enjoy – like walking outside, gardening, hiking, and talking on the phone with friends.  If you need suggestions, I am happy to send you a picture of my labradoddle, Griffin. 

What are the benefits of Mediation?

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What Are The Benefits Of Mediation?
The mediation process is client focused. In mediation, clients determine how long the process will take by how organized they are. The parties, not a judge, control both the process and the outcomes. A party can choose to have an attorney to inform them about the law but the decisions they make are their own. The process takes place in a safe, respectful environment. Mediation focused attorneys recognize that parties have an interest in maintaining respect after the process is complete.